Attention Disorder hehe

Hari ini sempet chat sebentar sama temen kuliah, dan kebetulan lagi mikirin kenapa perempuan concern banget dengan berat badannya.. kita sempet bahas dikit but in the end dia bilang masalah ini ga esensial dan dia malu bahasnya.. Well entah apa yang ada di pikirannya, tapi semua orang emang punya daerah nyamannya masing2, and that was totally 100 % kesalahan saya karena bertanya pada laki2, hehe maaf ya pak :)..

Akhirnya setelah insiden itu saya malah ga berpikir tentang masalah 'perempuan dan berat badan' lagi tapi jadi mikir betapa jauhnya gap permasalahan yang esensial antara saya yang dulu dengan saya yang sekarang (hihihi punya attention disorder yang akut nih :)).. Apa lingkungan sudah memutasi kesadaran dan menjadikannya makhluk berpikiran sempit? atau malah mendekatkan realita dan pernik2 kehidupan itu sendiri?.. Mungkin helicopter ability jadi makin rendah kerena keasikan melihat warna2 kehidupan.. Anyway, Tuhan menyodorkan lembar ujian yang berbeda untuk setiap orang.. Dan pada akhirnya nilai kita adalah keridhoan-Nya, sekarang yang bisa dilakukan adalah menjadi manfaat sebesar2nya bagi-Nya dan bagi makhluk ciptaan-Nya di setiap tarikan nafas..

oiya fyi tentang wanita dan berat badan (hehe balik lagi):

While eating disorders tends to peak between adolescence and early adulthood, the incidence and prevalence has shown an increase in all age groups. For instance, eating disorders are increasing rapidly among pre-pubertal girls. Disordered eating habits and weight concerns are beginning at earlier ages and concerns of body weight and image emerge in girls as young as 9 years of age. A recent study found that 70% of sixth grade girls surveyed report that they first became concerned about their weight between the ages of 9 and 11 (ngutip dari sini)

Jadi inget pas SD dulu kita (terutama para cewe) punya idola, sebenernya ga kaya cheerleader queen yang biasa kita liat di cinema, tapi kami para bocah ingusan mentasbihkannya sebagai 'pemimpin' karena beberapa faktor : dia cantik, kurus, pintar dan tajir abis :D

many women started smoking in the first place because they thought it might help them stay slim (sumbernya dari sini)

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Soal ini kembali pada kesadaran masing2 perempuan.. seringkali kita ga bisa lepas dari 'penjara' pandangan orang terhadap bentuk tubuh kita, but as long as we feel confidence with ourselves (mind, body and soul) then i think we can make people comfort no matter what size we have, they will see more than flesh and bones, because we are much much more than that..

Beautiful
-Christina Aguilera-
Spoken:
Don't look at me

Every day is so wonderful
And suddenly, i saw debris
Now and then, I get insecure
From all the pain, I'm so ashamed

I am beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring me down
So don't you bring me down today

To all your friends, you're delirious
So consumed in all your doom
Trying hard to fill the emptiness
The piece is gone left the puzzle undone
That's the way it is

You are beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring you down
You are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring you down
Don't you bring me down today...

No matter what we do
(no matter what we do)
No matter what they say
(no matter what they say)
When the sun is shining through
Then the clouds won't stay


And everywhere we go
(everywhere we go)
The sun won't always shine
(sun won't always shine)
But tomorrow will find a way
All the other times

'cause we are beautiful no matter what they say
Yes, words won't bring us down, oh no
We are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring us down
Don't you bring me down today

Don't you bring me down today
Don't you bring me down today